Japanese communication skill is not absolutely vital to score yourself a Japanese girl. I am acquainted with more than a few lotharios in Tokyo who can scarcely decipher the menu at a Japanese restaurant, but take home women with astonishing frequency. Anyone would be startled at precisely how far a couple of phrases in addition to a ton of gestures and grabby-handing can go.
But bear in mind, don't think that you can be lazy with your language game. Conversing in Japanese is undoubtedly and tremendously beneficial given that it exponentially increases the amount of chicks you can talk to. English education here is godawful. Moreover, the majority of Japanese girls can barely respond to "How are you?" without getting nervous. If you do not speak Japanese, you are precluding yourself from a very large slice of the beautiful girls in Japan. I imagine this is true for any country, however, it is without a doubt most visible in Asian nations that have low percentages of competent English speakers.
Being able to speak Japanese, even just conversationally, will grant you access to a much, much bigger pool of potential mates. In addition, there is a large subset of Japanese girls who desperately want to speak English but don't want to study. You represent a possible shortcut to English mastery, if you can speak their language. Some of you may not fancy the idea of a girl "using" you for English lesson. I advice you to just roll with it because that kind of exchange happens all the time.
Additionally, even with what you might have learnt, most Japanese girls who can use English still want to converse using Japanese and a hopeless or merely troublesome language barrier is a ground for dismissal. Japanese girls usually at least contemplate the thought of a long term relationship, and that thought ends up being more daydream than reality if you aren't able to string enough words together to have a conversation.
If that doesn't inspire you to pick up a Japanese book, then consider that most foreigners don't speak Japanese either. They are targeting the same girls as you are. Unless you consider yourself a cut above the average gaijin, you should increase your odds by learning Japanese and going for the girls who don't speak English.
A word of caution for the Japanophiles: Japanese girls will not get dirty with you just because you can read Shonen Jump. A out of shape, poorly dressed fella is unnoticeable to girls no matter how many obscure prefectural dialects he can ape. I ought to know, that used to be me.
In closing, you don't need to understand Japanese in order to get girls in Japan, but being able to will make the progression much simpler. If you intend on being in Japan for longer than several weeks, you should consider hitting your local language center.
Don't forget, "Come help me study" is really a terrific excuse to bring a girl to your place.
But bear in mind, don't think that you can be lazy with your language game. Conversing in Japanese is undoubtedly and tremendously beneficial given that it exponentially increases the amount of chicks you can talk to. English education here is godawful. Moreover, the majority of Japanese girls can barely respond to "How are you?" without getting nervous. If you do not speak Japanese, you are precluding yourself from a very large slice of the beautiful girls in Japan. I imagine this is true for any country, however, it is without a doubt most visible in Asian nations that have low percentages of competent English speakers.
Being able to speak Japanese, even just conversationally, will grant you access to a much, much bigger pool of potential mates. In addition, there is a large subset of Japanese girls who desperately want to speak English but don't want to study. You represent a possible shortcut to English mastery, if you can speak their language. Some of you may not fancy the idea of a girl "using" you for English lesson. I advice you to just roll with it because that kind of exchange happens all the time.
Additionally, even with what you might have learnt, most Japanese girls who can use English still want to converse using Japanese and a hopeless or merely troublesome language barrier is a ground for dismissal. Japanese girls usually at least contemplate the thought of a long term relationship, and that thought ends up being more daydream than reality if you aren't able to string enough words together to have a conversation.
If that doesn't inspire you to pick up a Japanese book, then consider that most foreigners don't speak Japanese either. They are targeting the same girls as you are. Unless you consider yourself a cut above the average gaijin, you should increase your odds by learning Japanese and going for the girls who don't speak English.
A word of caution for the Japanophiles: Japanese girls will not get dirty with you just because you can read Shonen Jump. A out of shape, poorly dressed fella is unnoticeable to girls no matter how many obscure prefectural dialects he can ape. I ought to know, that used to be me.
In closing, you don't need to understand Japanese in order to get girls in Japan, but being able to will make the progression much simpler. If you intend on being in Japan for longer than several weeks, you should consider hitting your local language center.
Don't forget, "Come help me study" is really a terrific excuse to bring a girl to your place.
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