You have been in a relationship with your Hong Kong girl for couple of months. Things are going to the right direction. You also feel like she is the right one for you. Your friend might give you some advice about dating Asian girls before, but you don't have any problems about it.
Until one day your girlfriend says: "Sweetheart, can you meet my parents next weekend? How about Sunday? They really want to meet you" It's the first time for you to meet her parents. Now the fun part really begins. What should I do? Any help?
First no need to be panic. It's not that difficult actually. Despite all the stories, true and myths, your Hong Kong girl's parents just want to best for their daughter. To be honest, many Hong Kong parents are not that bad. All you need to do is do your "homework" and you will be fine!
Dress to impress: First impression is very important. The first step is to find some neat and smart clothes. If you don't have it, go to buy some. In fact, your Hong Kong girl should give you the best advice about what you should wear for the occasion. She can also go shopping with you if you both have time.
Career talk: When you meet her parents, try to talk about your career and ambitions. You should also talk about your ability to make money. Not everybody are working at the investment bank or accounting firm. But as long as you can show to her parents you have the ability to support the family, you don't need to worry too much about that.
Respect: You should show great respect for her parents. You don't need to agree with everything they say. But try to avoid some sensitive topics like politics and anything related to death. It will possibly ruin the whole atmosphere. It's very likely they will offer you some beer or wine. Remember do not drink too much. You don't want to say some stupid things.
It's very natural to feel nervous if it's the first time for you to meet your girl's parents. I am sure you will feel more comfortable when you have chances to see them in the future. Good luck for your first meeting.
Until one day your girlfriend says: "Sweetheart, can you meet my parents next weekend? How about Sunday? They really want to meet you" It's the first time for you to meet her parents. Now the fun part really begins. What should I do? Any help?
First no need to be panic. It's not that difficult actually. Despite all the stories, true and myths, your Hong Kong girl's parents just want to best for their daughter. To be honest, many Hong Kong parents are not that bad. All you need to do is do your "homework" and you will be fine!
Dress to impress: First impression is very important. The first step is to find some neat and smart clothes. If you don't have it, go to buy some. In fact, your Hong Kong girl should give you the best advice about what you should wear for the occasion. She can also go shopping with you if you both have time.
Career talk: When you meet her parents, try to talk about your career and ambitions. You should also talk about your ability to make money. Not everybody are working at the investment bank or accounting firm. But as long as you can show to her parents you have the ability to support the family, you don't need to worry too much about that.
Respect: You should show great respect for her parents. You don't need to agree with everything they say. But try to avoid some sensitive topics like politics and anything related to death. It will possibly ruin the whole atmosphere. It's very likely they will offer you some beer or wine. Remember do not drink too much. You don't want to say some stupid things.
It's very natural to feel nervous if it's the first time for you to meet your girl's parents. I am sure you will feel more comfortable when you have chances to see them in the future. Good luck for your first meeting.
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