Females who are in need of sexual gratification often turn to masturbation to achieve their sexual and psychological objectives. Many married and single women often masturbate and explore their erogenous zones so as to have orgasm whenever they need it. A lot of women even masturbate and achieve multiple orgasm during one erotic masturbation session.
Masturbation among married women is common since for so many of them, that is the only way they can achieve orgasm and enjoy sexual pleasure. For most other women who reach orgasm through sex with male partners, they have to plead and beg and cajole their men to suck them and help them achieve it.
Well the sexy people of western Europe thought this was a stupid thing and invited the Puritans to move to the New World usually at the end of a sword or gun. So a lot of the original settling of what is now the United States was done by these Puritans. Many of them were in the founding government of the country and helped to create its laws and form our modern day values and beliefs. One of the most powerful beliefs is that sex is only for men and women who are married and for the purpose of birthing children.
With that view firmly established in the American psyche it is easy to see how masturbation and especially female masturbation is something considered indecent and gross. So you have very repressed people who naturally have urges to masturbate but have been raised to see those natural urges as bad, improper, and even evil.What you should understand is that these are simply someones beliefs and have nothing to do with reality. The reality is that humans are sexual creatures (how else do you think you are here reading this?) and the urge to masturbate is as natural as the urge to eat and sleep.
If you get enough pressure and motion going, it's possible to make yourself come by hand, but if you have a vibrator, it can be even more intense and pleasurable. You can get special vibrators that have little "wings" on them that are made special to vibrate and stimulate a woman's clitoris. These can be used on yourself, or your lover can use them to masturbate you to add some spice to your love making sessions.
The male experience is shorter but more intense. The female experience is longer but lower overall. My experience of female masturbation is that the initial phase can be horizontal - nothing happens. I lie there waiting for the inspiration of an effective fantasy.But once that spark takes light, my experience is similar to a man's. Within a minute or two the whole thing is over. The build up is quick and the sensations of release are sexually satisfying. The aftermath of orgasm involves a sense of relief followed by blissful relaxation.
Build up with a partner takes much longer than a few seconds. But also the sensations are more pleasurable and physically intense as he stimulates me. My mind has no conscious focus except the sensations of my partner touching me and thinking about his erection.For me, orgasm with a partner includes pelvic contractions but there is not the same sense of release. Using fantasy allows me to be the woman but also to identify with the man at the point of orgasm as he thrusts and ejaculates to orgasm. Perhaps this ability to superimpose the act of male ejaculation on my orgasm produces my sense of release.
During female masturbation, whatever sexual activity I am imagining (usually anal sex or occasionally fellatio), my focus at the point of orgasm is thinking about the man's orgasm. The act of ejaculation is highly graphic and, for me, symbolizes the sexual satisfaction of my own orgasm.I approached sex initially as a man must. I hoped to feel sexual arousal and that I would be able to reach orgasm during sex. I was bitterly disappointed as many women are, who are familiar with orgasm from female masturbation, when they first come to sex. I concluded that the female mind and body simply do not respond to sex as a man's mind and body do.
Female masturbation is very important for sexual health, so indulge yourself whenever you feel the need!I've never read a book that practically breaks down the complexities of the female orgasm into an easy to read formula, like this one.I actually got my boyfriend to try out some of the techniques in this book and I ended up having wobbly legs the whole day! I didn't understand why they set a time limit for this book when everybody who read it, is raving about it.
Masturbation among married women is common since for so many of them, that is the only way they can achieve orgasm and enjoy sexual pleasure. For most other women who reach orgasm through sex with male partners, they have to plead and beg and cajole their men to suck them and help them achieve it.
Well the sexy people of western Europe thought this was a stupid thing and invited the Puritans to move to the New World usually at the end of a sword or gun. So a lot of the original settling of what is now the United States was done by these Puritans. Many of them were in the founding government of the country and helped to create its laws and form our modern day values and beliefs. One of the most powerful beliefs is that sex is only for men and women who are married and for the purpose of birthing children.
With that view firmly established in the American psyche it is easy to see how masturbation and especially female masturbation is something considered indecent and gross. So you have very repressed people who naturally have urges to masturbate but have been raised to see those natural urges as bad, improper, and even evil.What you should understand is that these are simply someones beliefs and have nothing to do with reality. The reality is that humans are sexual creatures (how else do you think you are here reading this?) and the urge to masturbate is as natural as the urge to eat and sleep.
If you get enough pressure and motion going, it's possible to make yourself come by hand, but if you have a vibrator, it can be even more intense and pleasurable. You can get special vibrators that have little "wings" on them that are made special to vibrate and stimulate a woman's clitoris. These can be used on yourself, or your lover can use them to masturbate you to add some spice to your love making sessions.
The male experience is shorter but more intense. The female experience is longer but lower overall. My experience of female masturbation is that the initial phase can be horizontal - nothing happens. I lie there waiting for the inspiration of an effective fantasy.But once that spark takes light, my experience is similar to a man's. Within a minute or two the whole thing is over. The build up is quick and the sensations of release are sexually satisfying. The aftermath of orgasm involves a sense of relief followed by blissful relaxation.
Build up with a partner takes much longer than a few seconds. But also the sensations are more pleasurable and physically intense as he stimulates me. My mind has no conscious focus except the sensations of my partner touching me and thinking about his erection.For me, orgasm with a partner includes pelvic contractions but there is not the same sense of release. Using fantasy allows me to be the woman but also to identify with the man at the point of orgasm as he thrusts and ejaculates to orgasm. Perhaps this ability to superimpose the act of male ejaculation on my orgasm produces my sense of release.
During female masturbation, whatever sexual activity I am imagining (usually anal sex or occasionally fellatio), my focus at the point of orgasm is thinking about the man's orgasm. The act of ejaculation is highly graphic and, for me, symbolizes the sexual satisfaction of my own orgasm.I approached sex initially as a man must. I hoped to feel sexual arousal and that I would be able to reach orgasm during sex. I was bitterly disappointed as many women are, who are familiar with orgasm from female masturbation, when they first come to sex. I concluded that the female mind and body simply do not respond to sex as a man's mind and body do.
Female masturbation is very important for sexual health, so indulge yourself whenever you feel the need!I've never read a book that practically breaks down the complexities of the female orgasm into an easy to read formula, like this one.I actually got my boyfriend to try out some of the techniques in this book and I ended up having wobbly legs the whole day! I didn't understand why they set a time limit for this book when everybody who read it, is raving about it.
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