How Patience And Tenacity Of Purpose Can Help Ensure Eventual Success

By Debra Nelson


There have been numerous studies of people that achieved great success, that amassed huge fortunes or that made significant contributions to the worlds of art or science. Most of these studies concluded that, despite the fact that the subjects of the studies differed wildly in many ways, they still shared certain characteristics. Intelligence and physical appearance are not amongst these shared qualities. Among other shared characteristics, patience and tenacity of purpose seem to be the most important characteristics of most successful people.

Being patient means that one has the ability to wait, to face problems and to deal with them calmly, to endure difficulties without annoyance and to refuse to allow circumstances or other people to make one lose faith. A patient person does not complain or try to blame others for his problems. He deals with them. This is a very helpful skill and only people that know how to be patient can actually deal with the many frustrations that life routinely offers.

Being patient should not be confused with waiting idly for something to happen. A fisherman sitting for hours on end in his boat may be seen as patient. However, just sitting there is not actually being patient if he has not prepared his bait and cast his line. Only once he took action, by preparing his bait and by casting his line, can he be described as patient while he waits for a fish to bite.

A tenacious person is someone that can perhaps best be described as determined, as someone with strength of will. Tenacious people are single minded and they do not allow anyone or anything to detract them from their purpose. They know precisely what it is that they want to achieve and they pursue that goal without giving up or without becoming side tracked.

Tenacious people are often viewed as stubborn idealists. This is not the true meaning of being tenacious. True tenacious people have very clear and achievable goals and they simply mean to achieve those goals regardless of circumstances or any other interfering factor. They are not fools and they never pursue unrealistic goals. They believe in themselves and they firmly believe in the fact that they will prevail.

Being tenacious or being patient are both valuable characteristics. In combination with one person they are very powerful, however. These are individuals that set themselves goals and do everything that they can to achieve those goals. They do not allow other people or difficulties to side track them. They do not become discouraged and they never ever give up. When they have to wait for results, they do so without rancour.

Many people think that one cannot learn new traits. This is not the case. Human beings have the unique ability to overcome character flaws and to nurture new strengths. One can indeed learn how to become more patient and how to be tenacious. There are numerous informative and helpful books and websites dealing with this issue. There are even life coaches specializing in this area.

Many people see tenacious people as difficult and single minded. Similarly, they see patient people as lazy individuals hoping for miracles to occur. In reality, tenacious and patient people are the ones that inevitably achieve their goals. They know what they want and they go for it.




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