Fundamental Tips For Single Muslims Dating

By Ann Perry


Acknowledging a lifetime partner has never and will never be a walk in the park but will always demand an exercise of due diligence and utmost guidance from Allah. Single Muslims must understand that dating has never been an option as acknowledged from other cultures. However, marriage is perceived holy and a form of worship by Allah. Therefore, an aspiration to acquire a lifetime partner is indisputable and so is purity. Discussed throughout the article are fundamental tips to all the solo Muslims looking for a marriage partner.

To begin with, patient is paramount to a successful search. One must override in patience in order to identify the most appealing person to spend their life time with. The current millennial generation is faced by the tragedy of hasty decisions especially when it comes to relationships and marriages. However, while aspiring a successful encounter, one must take their time and exercise keenness. Remember to dispense any magical appearance of your partner imaginations whatsoever.

Be abreast with all voluntary activities organized by your Mosque or any Muslim group activity. These activities will always bring together believers of the opposite sex and avail a golden opportunity for you to interact and finally identify a promising lifelong spouse; the fact that you both are volunteers and worship at the same Mosque matters great a deal.

Endeavor to consider online dating sites specifically designed and purposed for Muslims. These sights helps you identify profiles, characters and persons that you might wish to meet and eventually upgrade to a lifelong relationship. Therefore, have a profile created with all information pertaining your whereabouts and believes.

While meeting for the first time, you should always be escorted by a trusted adult. There is a common tendency of young people neglecting chaperoning which should never be the case with you. Make the first meeting simple and safe. For instance, you can either have coffee, lunch or even attend an activity together while still accompanied by your escort. Always ensure that the meeting is light and amicable.

Respect and care must blend throughout your first meeting. Appreciate the other person for who they are and what they believe in. There are cases where you might feel not wired. Ladies will always aspire to recognize the husband material in you and therefore you must conduct yourself. Be attentive to their words and be keen to keep it real. The best way to stay safe is to acquire literal meaning of all their utterances.

Consult widely with your parents who over the years have learned all the turns and the twists of relationships and marriages. Eventually, they will have a piece of guidance into things that you need to uphold and mull over. Always garner ideas from their wise counsels. At times, your parents will always have a suggestion or two as they know what is best for you.

Being truthful is one of the simple norms to employ. Be yourself and abhor from any form of profile forgery. The moment you anchor your meetings and talks on deception and false profiles is the very moment you shall invite failure as your house guest. Therefore, comprehend that candor is fundamentally germane and indubitable.

Conclusively, every Muslim must always seek the guidance of Allah. Allah has always showered those that seek guidance with both wisdom and discernment. Consequently, you will have a safe, effective and victorious encounter with your partner.




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