Has another guy stolen your girlfriend? Has your girlfriend left you for someone else and you're feeling pretty poor about your chances of winning her back. Maybe he has more money than you, dresses better than you, acts cooler than you or is more handsome than you. None of this matters though and you need to know that in your heart.
It's a common misconception that women are attracted to the most handsome or wealthy men. Most guys think that a girl judges a guy by the clothes he wears, how expensive his watch is or how big his muscles are but for a woman, lasting love is built on something just a little bit different. A woman falls in love with a guy because of how he makes her feel. The guy that can make a woman feel those intense romantic feelings is the man that will win in the end every time. The man that can be himself and build an intense romantic connection with a woman will win out over a guy with all the other things in life going for him.
In the wake of your breakup there's a very good chance that you haven't been acting normal. You could feel her slipping away from you before the breakup. You did everything that you could to save the relationship. After the breakup, you became frantic to possess her and bring her back. As a result, you haven't been acting like yourself. You became so focused on your girlfriend and making her love you that you became needy. You desperately wanted her to love you. You needed her to love you. A woman can sense these emotions and feelings and they are very unattractive, to say the least.
All the while, the other man had your girlfriend right where he wanted her. He didn't have to try and he probably didn't even care about her the way that you did. All he had to do was be there for her and listen to her and the bond was made. He would agree with her about everything and tell her that he would behave differently. He was her port in a storm and she felt free to connect with him. When she was with him it was as if he was her refuge from her relationship that she felt smothered in.
Now it's your turn to create or recreate that connection with the woman you love. You did it before and probably quite easily. She fell in love with you and she probably told you at one point that she felt a strong connection with you. This is the only way to get her back. You need her to see for herself that you are the one that truly cares about her. She needs to make this decision on her own. There will come a time when she will reach out to you and test to see if that connection is still there. She will remember how things were and she will wonder if you still care enough to make her feel those wonderful feelings that she had when things were good between the two of you. Will you be ready?
Get your life together and prepare yourself for getting your girlfriend back. Start to educate yourself about what she needs, wants and expects in a relationship so you can make her happy. Be yourself. After all, it was you that she fell in love with when you first got together. Understanding what it was that you did and what she fell in love with is a part of understanding her as a woman and female psychology, in general.
It's a common misconception that women are attracted to the most handsome or wealthy men. Most guys think that a girl judges a guy by the clothes he wears, how expensive his watch is or how big his muscles are but for a woman, lasting love is built on something just a little bit different. A woman falls in love with a guy because of how he makes her feel. The guy that can make a woman feel those intense romantic feelings is the man that will win in the end every time. The man that can be himself and build an intense romantic connection with a woman will win out over a guy with all the other things in life going for him.
In the wake of your breakup there's a very good chance that you haven't been acting normal. You could feel her slipping away from you before the breakup. You did everything that you could to save the relationship. After the breakup, you became frantic to possess her and bring her back. As a result, you haven't been acting like yourself. You became so focused on your girlfriend and making her love you that you became needy. You desperately wanted her to love you. You needed her to love you. A woman can sense these emotions and feelings and they are very unattractive, to say the least.
All the while, the other man had your girlfriend right where he wanted her. He didn't have to try and he probably didn't even care about her the way that you did. All he had to do was be there for her and listen to her and the bond was made. He would agree with her about everything and tell her that he would behave differently. He was her port in a storm and she felt free to connect with him. When she was with him it was as if he was her refuge from her relationship that she felt smothered in.
Now it's your turn to create or recreate that connection with the woman you love. You did it before and probably quite easily. She fell in love with you and she probably told you at one point that she felt a strong connection with you. This is the only way to get her back. You need her to see for herself that you are the one that truly cares about her. She needs to make this decision on her own. There will come a time when she will reach out to you and test to see if that connection is still there. She will remember how things were and she will wonder if you still care enough to make her feel those wonderful feelings that she had when things were good between the two of you. Will you be ready?
Get your life together and prepare yourself for getting your girlfriend back. Start to educate yourself about what she needs, wants and expects in a relationship so you can make her happy. Be yourself. After all, it was you that she fell in love with when you first got together. Understanding what it was that you did and what she fell in love with is a part of understanding her as a woman and female psychology, in general.
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Learn more about female psychology from Matt Huston. Discover why your girlfriend might need you to take the lead in your relationship.
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