The Grieving Process With Rabbi Funeral

By Laura Long


As all things in life and that live, there comes a time of death where the soul of a loved one passes on to the next world and continues its journey. A Rabbi funeral is essential to those that are left behind to follow the laws laid down in Judaism as exactly how to go about mourning. There are customs that some follow and essentially, it is believed and practiced that the mourning period last eleven months.

Many find the laws meaningful and in keeping with practices that have been passed down for millenia. Some choose to keep these and to abide by them as they help with the grieving process. Others stick to customs that their parents had and some of these include wearing socks only around the home and covering hanging mirrors and paintings.

These are all signs that say a person is in mourning but there is more meaning to them than just custom. The first period of mourning is known as Shiva which roughly translated means The Seven or seven days of mourning. During this time the family members receive guests who will want to offer their condolences and really just to talk and give the mourners that bit of strength to carry on.

This helps with the grieving process and takes the mind off the loss. Emotions are raw at this state and it is best to be kind to oneself in order to grieve completely. Some follow customs of sitting on a low bench or couch and even wearing socks around the house to show that one is in a state of mourning.

The coffin is brought out and laid on a trolley in order to transport it to the designated grave site. Mourners gather around it whilst prayers are said and with that, the coffin is rolled out to the grave. It is customary for there to be pallbearers and these are made up of close family and friends that are given the honour to do just this.

With the body ready for burial it is time for the ceremony to proceed. The coffin is rolled to the grave site and this is when, close family and friends can help to act as pallbearers. This is a great honour and it is a time for those who do so to reflect on the life they had with the deceased.

Be this as it may, grieving hurts and losing someone of love is very hurtful and life changing. Life however does continue and one should make the effort to express those emotions felt. It helps and acts as a release for the bereft person and in so doing, find comfort in the fact that it was an honor to have known the deceased.

It is a time of reflection and remembrance when family members grieve and remember the good times that they had with the deceased. It should also be realised that this life is short and that the soul continues its journey in the next world or world to come. Getting a Rabbi to help and assist is essential when times such as these arise.




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