Challenges In Reshaping Your Life

By Janet Olson


Life has so many twists and turns and it seems at best impossible to keep up with the demands of it. Reshaping your life is not such an easy task as it is always difficult to make those changes that one knows one should. There are just so many facets in life and one after the other needs to be addressed in order to live the best one possible.

Everyone wants to be happy or have more, or love more and so often this eludes the person because of various reasons usually being the emotional ones that one just does not want to change. Changing takes effort and will to do just that and a person feels this intrinsically and intuitively. It is that inner voice that cries out for change and heeding its call is what is required.

This is the time for the person alone to find within themselves that which needs to be changed and those areas that need adjusting. Relationships play an important role in the well being of the individual and if these are out of the ordinary, then chaos, anxiety and unhappiness result. Sometimes one just sticks in a relationship because of the fear of losing that other person.

People are habitual too just like it is in the animal world and because of this, change is hard especially if one knows one should move on. Staying in a relationship that is not going anywhere seems safer than being alone and this is the main reason why many do so. It can be difficult if one partner does not pull their weight and help out around the household with chores.

This is why it is so important to keep communication channels open and to find ways to make relationships exciting, loving, caring and nurturing. When feeling neglected this often goes unheard until a fight breaks out and one finds oneself wanting some sort of outlet. It is best at times such as these to seek professional counsellors to help with problems such as these.

The problem can lie with one of the partners. It is not uncommon to find that as life goes on, one tends to drift further and further away from the connection that one had previously. This is a very common thing in relationships and especially in marriage where a person gets wrapped up and inundated with daily chores to do and tasks.

The spark just seems to fade away and with time a person wonders what they are still doing with his or her partner. Relationships as they say take work and it is best to try and keep as in touch with the next just as it was when it started. Time must be set aside to do the things that are loved to be done thus keeping it exciting and new.

It is never too late to bring about change. Being mindful of the next is very important. If all else fails, it is best to seek out help.




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