How To Throw A Great Jewish Christian Interfaith Wedding

By Robert Taylor


It is a wonderful thing when two big groups of people who practice different faiths and maybe come from completely different places in the world can come together and celebrate as one. A Jewish Christian interfaith wedding, also known as mixed or co-officiated weddings, can sometimes be difficult things to coordinate because of the different customs that can sometimes come clashing together. With the right information, you can make everybody comfortable and make it a wonderful experience for everyone.

One of the best things you can do when two different types of people are coming together each of which have their own particular customs is to figure out which of these customs overlap between the two of them. This can be done easily by drawing a Venn diagram or by looking up helpful lists that have already been compiled. This will make it so everyone feels that their culture is respected.

When a couple uses a ceremonial Unity Candle, it can be a very touching, moving, symbolic experience for everyone involved. That is why candles are used in so many different faiths, and you will find that this one pleases all. Not only can this candle symbolize these two people coming together, but also the families as well.

It is highly unlikely that anyone at this event will have any problem whatsoever with the part of the marriage known as the announcement. This is simply to formally announce to everybody there the names of those who are to be wed. Since this is pretty common practice in almost all religions, it is quite commonly accepted.

Christians commonly practice something where the congregation of the ceremony is asked if everyone there supports what the couple is doing. Although not all other faiths do this, many can relate to it. The family of the other person will have the belief that witnesses are needed for this kind of thing.

Most everyone knows about vows being part of a marriage ceremony. Not every faith out there practices the speaking of these vows because they use their traditional language and go deeper spiritually. Luckily vows are so common that everyone accepts them.

When you think of some of the iconic traditions of the Yiddish culture that most people know of due to their use in movies and musicals, the breaking of the glass tradition probably springs to mind. Christians do not traditionally do this, but because it is so fun, they are almost always game to have this at the ceremony. It is important to take certain safety precautions so nobody gets hurt.

It is a wonderful thing when you can use something that is an ancient tradition for one group of people and tweak it slightly so that it pleases everybody there, even if they are of different faiths. The ketubah is something that many people have used for a very long time, and even if people of different faiths are being wedded, this is still often used. By making the words in it specifically apply to the people who are involved, it will be a great experience for everybody.




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