What if heartbreak was your best healer?
What if you really took some time to dive into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that destroyed you, it basically helped in creating you?
These are hard questions to ask yourself. However, they are incredibly rewarding. Many have had their hearts ripped out in some way or other and truthfully there is not any worse feeling that you can go through. You are feeling totally terrible for what seems to be an eternity and the feelings of loss never appear to go away. So long as we keep playing on the field of life, we're going to suffer the inescapable fact that our hearts will break occasionally.
But what if, when heartbreak occurs, we allow it to show us where we actually must do deep interpersonal work? How do we take the agony of loss and be able to create something attractive with it?
I'm not suggesting that we should attempt to ascend above our agony, but rather as an alternative attempt to take our own agony and birth something positive and pretty out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet simultaneously one that could make an awesome difference when we face deep adversity.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take all that agony deep within and change it into something else. Try writing, painting, talking, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what is inside you instead of letting it eat you day to day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it out. You never know what may happen.
What if you really took some time to dive into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that destroyed you, it basically helped in creating you?
These are hard questions to ask yourself. However, they are incredibly rewarding. Many have had their hearts ripped out in some way or other and truthfully there is not any worse feeling that you can go through. You are feeling totally terrible for what seems to be an eternity and the feelings of loss never appear to go away. So long as we keep playing on the field of life, we're going to suffer the inescapable fact that our hearts will break occasionally.
But what if, when heartbreak occurs, we allow it to show us where we actually must do deep interpersonal work? How do we take the agony of loss and be able to create something attractive with it?
I'm not suggesting that we should attempt to ascend above our agony, but rather as an alternative attempt to take our own agony and birth something positive and pretty out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet simultaneously one that could make an awesome difference when we face deep adversity.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take all that agony deep within and change it into something else. Try writing, painting, talking, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what is inside you instead of letting it eat you day to day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it out. You never know what may happen.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Going through a rough patch or just had your heart broken? Yeah, that can be pretty darn tough. I put together some heartbreak quotes to help you out in this situation.
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