Female Psychology That You Can Use To Get Your Girlfriend Back

By Alisha Eino


This might sound like a stupid questions but are you sure that you really love your ex boyfriend? Do you love him or do you just want to get him back? Find out the truth before you move forward with your plans to win him over.

Understanding women and knowing what a woman needs to feel in order to fall in love with you is important to your success in restoring your relationship. While some might say that this is somehow underhanded or sneaky, where is the harm in wanting to understand the person that you love? What's wrong with doing a little research on female psychology and then using that information to make the one you love happy? Never allow yourself to feel bad about wanting to understand someone that you love. You should be commended for such thoughtfulness. You're a good guy for wanting to get to the root of the matter and actually make someone you love feel good in a relationship.

I know this sounds strange but there is a big difference between loving someone and wanting to posess them. Loving your ex boyfriend means that you want the best for him and you want him to be happy. You can still love him without even seeing him again. You can close your eyes and think of him and wish that good things happen in his life. You can remember good times you had and be happy for the time that you had together. Loving him doesn't require that he tell you that he loves you or for him to even like you. If you love him you simply love him.

Does Your Ex Want To? It could be that you actually want to give it one more try, but does your boyfriend or girlfriend If he/she is giving you indications that he/she would like to get back together, such as chatting about things you have done in the past or wishing to go on dates with you, then these are good indicators that he/she is interested in reconciliation. Getting back together involves not just your desire, but also your ex's; it calls for both of you to make the relationship work. If one person is not willing, then the complete process is condemned to collapse.

Sometimes by simply loving someone we can actually attract them back into our life in a way that no amount of convincing or talking ever could. By just loving your ex boyfriend you can have peace about your feelings because they don't require any validation or reciprocation. By loving your boyfriend in your heart and wanting the best for him, even if that means him not being with you for a period of time because your emotions and desires to posess him scared him away, can bring him back. By backing off and just loving him you can bring him back.

In order for you to win her back and make her feel those loving feelings again, you need to erase the past and trigger those emotions that equal love in her mind and her heart. In order for her to forget about your moments of weakness, you should spend a little time apart from her and stop chasing her. A real man doesn't chase a woman. He allows the woman to show interest in him first and then he sweeps her off her feet. She doesn't want to hear words. She wants to see action in your life. You need to be strong and decisive in everything that you do. Forget about those weak, needy ways and start making things happen in your life.

Try these exercises for a week or two and see if you notice any changes in your boyfriend. In addition, spend some time thinking about loving him selflessly. Try to love him without thinking about yourself or your needs and see if there is a change in you. You very well might lose the anxiety and stress and depression often associated with a breakup and you might find that he starts showing you a little more attention.




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