Could Online Counseling Sessions Be Right For You?

By Donald Rogers


As time goes on the taboo of seeking counselling is disappearing and more people are finding they are comfortable not only seeking out counselling but being open about it with friends and family. With this openness comes an increasing availability of counsellors of various types. Now anyone can find the right therapist for them, even if that means using online counseling sessions.

For those who are really struggling with feelings of isolation, anxiety and depressions, online sessions can be a life saver. They mean you can reach out for help without going too far out of your comfort zone, from the safety of your own home. It saves money on transport and also saves times, making it a much more accessible and tempting option.

Some people feel that they can open up much more quickly if they are in their own space. This means that progress comes more quickly too, saving time that would otherwise be spent trying to get used to unfamiliar surroundings and what can be a very intimidating experience in a therapist's office. This isn't the case for everyone, but for many the internet has made therapy a possibility.

For some people, moving to a different location and sitting in a room specifically designed to be a safe and trustworthy space is more beneficial. It allows them to compartmentalize their life. They can enter the room designed for therapy and listening and when they leave they leave their troubles behind, to some extent.

Another disadvantage of online sessions is that it is much more easy to cancel a session. You do not feel like you are taking up as much time or effort if your therapy is over the internet, so it is easier to find reasons not to go. This is particularly a problem when you most need the help, as with most things, we resist help when we most need it.

Finding an online counselor who suits you is just as important as finding the right counsellor for face to face meetings. You need a professional who has experience relating to your specific needs, but you also need someone who matches with your personality. Not every therapist will be a good match for every client.

Try a test period before you commit to any one person. They might be offering a fantastic deal, but don't commit yourself to anything until you are sure that you are comfortable enough with them to really open up and be honest with them and yourself. This is an important decision, but when made correctly it can really change lives for the better.

Both healthy people and those with mental health problems find that they benefit from counseling. It is not something that you only need when you are at breaking point. Having someone to talk to, who truly listens to what you are saying, is essential for mental health and self esteem. It can strengthen relationships and ensure success in the future.




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